Late August 2011
As I aluded to in my last post, big changes were in store for the Mhire family. Tommy and I had made the decision that we thought Jack needed a sibling. I wouldn't say that we had started "trying" yet, but obviously not doing anything to stop nature from taking its course :) It took 4 months for me to get pregnant with Jack, so we were expecting something similar this time around, but when we saw this, there was definitely no mistaking that Jack would be a big brother in a matter of months!!

We were a little stunned, but very excited. I think one of the longest waits in the world has to be the from the time you find out you are pregnant (around 5 weeks) until the doctor wants you to come in for your first appointment (8 weeks). Even though we'd done it all before, its still nerve-wracking waiting those three weeks, hoping everything will be OK. Our first appointment was on September 16, 2011. We were elated to find that everything looked great at that first appointment. Here is the first picture of Baby Mhire #2, who is about the size of a kidney bean at this point:

We were given an official due date of April 30th, 2012 and made the next appointment for about 11 weeks. My first trimester was very similar to my first trimester with Jack - I was probably a little less sick this time around and a little more tired - I'm sure having a toddler and an extremely busy work schedule contributed a large part to the fatigue. There was no ultrasound at the ~11 week appointment, but we were able to hear the heartbeat for the first time. I always think of that as being one of the biggest milestones in the baby's development, so I was really nervous/excited for this appointment. Given that the baby was only the size of lime, the heartbeat can sometimes be difficult to hear and Dr. Harn struggled to find the heartbeat at first. He was just about to stop looking at send me for an ultrasound, and I had tears in my eyes, but then we
finally heard the swish-swish of the heartbeat. I've never heard a more wonderful sound!!
October 13th - 12 week genetic screenings - another milestone appointment. For this appointment, we headed to the maternal fetal medicine specialist, Dr. Koster, to perform the screenings for genetic abnormalities. We were very fotunate that everything came back perfectly normal in our tests and the risks for downs syndrome and other trisomies were extremely low. Usually, 12 weeks is too early to make an accurate gender prediction and Dr. Koster told us she will only tell the parents a gender if she is 95% sure she is correct. She followed that comment with "So do you want to know now?" Of course, we did. When she said "girl," I broke into tears. I guess I wanted to have a girl more than I knew. After seeing how excited I was, Dr. Koster began studying the ultrasound screen intently and then announced that she would have to take back her prediction. Not that she thought we weren't having a girl, but she couldn't be 95% sure, so she didn't want to tell us one way or the other. Of course, she felt horrible and told us to come back for a special ultrasound in 2 weeks when she could tell with more certainty. At 14 weeks, she still said "girl," but I wasn't quite convinced until the 20 week anatomy screening. Even after that, until I held her in my arms, I wouldn't quite let myself believe that it was a girl, even with a pink nursery and closet full of ruffles at home!
Here are the ultrasound photos from those appointments:
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| 12 weeks - it's a girl?? |
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| 14 weeks - still a girl... |